One of the hardest things I had to come to grip with was that I don’t pick my team. And neither do you.
You get to seek them, you get to invite them. But they have to pick you. Even more importantly, they have to pick themselves.
So don’t beat yourself up. Model the behavior. Make the invite. Follow up. And do enough of all this.
But stop waiting for that one person. Stay busy and keep offering the opportunity. And ultimately the right people will pick you.