If you’re looking for the post on the most important lesson for you, I’ve removed it. The plan was to make the point about how we’re all responsible for our own success. But after rereading it, I felt like I didn’t handle it very well, and it could be construed as a personal attack. So I deleted it and will try and do a better job in the future to present lessons in a way that are helpful but can’t be misconstrued against anyone. My apologies.